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Emma Reynolds's avatar

Thank you for articulating this, Rachel. This is what I’ve been trying to learn to do - to pay closer attention to myself and my truth. Which… is harder than it sounds, somehow.

These days, I have a better idea of what I would like my life to look like and I gently push towards this, one step at a time. Sometimes those steps are tiny, sometimes they are larger. And I try to stop and evaluate things as often as is necessary.

In the past, I’ve waited until my body and brain have been screaming at me before I’ve stopped to evaluate. Nowadays I’m better at listening to them speaking at a normal volume. Sometimes I even remember to check in with them first! (I use the IFS therapeutic model for this.)

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Danielle Counotte's avatar

This is such a timely post for me! It is the summer, and a bit slow at work and I instantly feel bored and wonder if I need more exciting projects (or even a different job?!) to avoid this feeling of boredom. Because for me being bored means it feels nearly impossible to push myself to get things done, while with all the new project energy I can move mountains. But I also know that in the past I've enthusiastically said yes to too many exciting projects and nearly burned out from having too much on my plate. Striking that balance is something I've been trying with very mixed success for over a decade now...

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